I found some posts on social media about Japanese people that I think are misunderstood. I'd like to clear them up here, because one of them made me sad and another one always gets me annoyed. It could be a bit of a touchy subject, but I think expressing my opinion in writing will be a good exercise for me, so let me share my thoughts.

The post that disheartened me was by a Taiwanese person, especially because I consider Taiwanese people to be our best friends. She said she has visited Japan many times and encountered discrimination or uncomfortable situations every time, even though she tried her best to speak Japanese. However, once she stopped using Japanese and switched to English, those negative experiences vanished into thin air. She claimed that Japanese people openly discriminate against other Asians while adoring Western people and culture. I can't say she is entirely wrong, but I feel she is partly mistaken.

First of all, the idea that Japanese people adore Westerners and their culture is extremely outdated. Secondly, Japanese people often get confused about how to respond to international visitors who speak Japanese, To be specific, whether to treat them as guests or like locals. They often conclude that since the person understands the language, they don't need any extra help or special consideration. Finally, and this is a sensitive point, we often cannot distinguish between Taiwanese and other Asians, especially Chinese people. As you might know, the relationship between these two countries is, frankly speaking, it's quite bad.

Let me mention another thing that always gets me annoyed: the opinion among some international tourists that Japanese people are "distant." What exactly do they expect from locals? We aren't Disney cast members! Being hesitant to befriend strangers isn't a uniquely Japanese phenomenon. I've traveled to several countries in Europe and Asia, and nobody talked to me unless there was a specific reason. Besides, many international people claim that Japanese relationships are "shallow." I strongly disagree with that. From a Japanese perspective, it can seem childish to simply say whatever pops into your head.

I couldn't agree more. What you said about being reserved that it can actually be a sign of thoughtfulness and respect is so true. Anyway, while I didn't notice any bad behavior from other tourists, I still think it's important to learn the basic etiquette and greetings of the country you're visiting.